How to catch a cheating girlfriend

How to catch a cheating girlfriend

Most of the time, when your girlfriend is cheating on you, you know by instinct that something is amiss in the relationship, whether or not you heed the things your gut is telling you, it still whispers to you persistently. However, there are two of the most common ways; men usually find out that their girlfriends are indeed cheating on them. This is either by accident, where the circumstances of finding out can be so wide that it would take pages to try to include them all. The other is that of surveillance and monitoring the behaviors, habits and daily dealings of your girlfriend.

You might want to keep a calendar, or a journal for entering the activities of your girlfriend. This journal may include anything from the places, dates, times and a list of the parties involved as well as the reasons or excuses that are offered to you for any particular activity. You can keep an eye on the bills, stubs and receipts as well as the banking and telephone activities. You might even want to make a surprise visit to their place of employment from time to time, just to check to see that they are indeed at work. Some boyfriends have been known to hang around all day in a parking lot, just to follow a girlfriend they suspect of cheating on them or hire a private detective to do it for them. Although when doing this yourself, you may want to borrow the car of one of your friends so your girlfriend does not catch on.

Alternatively, you may also be interested in any number of monitoring or surveillance tools such as voice activated recorders, hidden cameras or even a computer monitoring software or even an in home semen detection kit. However, when you use such items you must also educate yourself on any type of legal issue, which may possibly arise when trying to catch a cheating girlfriend.

When trying to determine if your girlfriend is cheating on you, you should pay attention to any differences or changes of behavior and habits and determine the need for the change and the amount of contrast it may have to the normal behavior of your girlfriend. As in any other situation, you should always pay attention to your intuition, gut feeling or that still small voice inside your own soul. We all have these feelings for our own good and we should take the time to listen to what they have to say. However, we also need to be mindful of our own deeds and determine if something we ourselves have done has not caused our girlfriends to act out in such a way to either hurt us or make us jealous. Of course, once you determine whether your girlfriend is cheating on you, then the next step is to figure out what you plan to do, once you have confronted her about any infidelity. Depending on your individual relationship and feelings, you will determine if you plan to try to save your relationship or if you plan to end your relationship.